Will it really be fine? (Это действительно будет хорошо?)

Dear Diary, I entered the room with a box of juice packs only to see her lie down and cry with pain. I looked at her and thought that maybe I interrupted at the wrong time. But, she looked in my eyes and kept weeping. I was followed by a girl who wondered as much…

KiLiG!

Let's welcome a guest post by Vaibhav Vaste! Want to take a look at his lively feelings? #Lifemerized Kilig! I know you must be wondering what's kilig. Well, just imagine looking at your crush and finding that your crush is already looking at you. Those butterflies that you get in your stomach! That very feeling…

Why No to Consent?

There's a very little awareness about marital rape in many parts of the world. Even when there's a law existing for it in many countries, it's either not reported widely or not taken action against effectively. Marital rape is regardless of gender and hence includes men too. If you want to know how, just google…

Choose People Wisely

We all have been heart broken some time or the other. So many times, we expect things which should be obvious in the given situation but often get less than deserved. To look carefully, we actually could have the control of what and how we feel. It’s just our way of looking at things! So…

The Fear of Letting Go

It happens so often that we move to a new place and suddenly find ourselves resisting to anything that doesn’t resemble or is different from the previous place we were living in. Especially, when we move to a new state or a city or a country for a long time we tend to build a…

A Letter to Self

We just forget to address the person who gives us the most, a person who motivates you. Hence this holiday season, just do it. I did it already! Merry Christmas! Have an amazing year! Dearest Self, I know this is a bit weird for you because we haven't had a real conversation in a real…

Be Happy With You

So today I put up a quote on my instagram page which read, “Don't base your goals on someone else's benchmarks.” Now this came to my mind very naturally because I've been through experiences which made me believe that! It's just about how we paralyze ourselves at times when we take up a new venture…

Breaking Free from Stuck Relationships

Stuck relationships I see around bother me especially when someone I know and love are in one. How often have you been upset because your partner simply doesn't get you? You wait thinking that there will be a moment of realization, a moment where the counter person would do something amazing. Something to make you…

Don’t Give a Fuck!

It's very obvious that if we hadn't had the critics in our life, we could be a lot better than what we're now. We have been the catch for the critics since we didn't even know what life meant! It's really amusing to see how people are so concerned about what's going on in our…

Should We Love Unconditionally?

Unconditional love! Doesn't it sound a little mythical? Like, it was supposed to be condition based but to just make it fit in a category, we added the prefix- unconditional! As if we needed a way to specify that our love is different, and when you say different, you mean it's uncommon. Which ultimately means…

Getting off the Tough Shoes for a while

When I look around, something that comes obvious to me is that how everyone wants to be in the “tough” shoes while they're feeling absolutely uncomfortable in them. It's now, some sort of societal norm which is trying to define our personal way of expression. And then, I can't get enough of peace by the…

Not Fitting In is Just Amazing!

Ever since we started taking control of our lives, we've been trying to fit in! So many of us have been doing things which we don't like, things that we wouldn't do if we had a choice.....just to fit in and camouflage in the defined colours of our society! No matter what part of the…

Welcome to Lifemerized!

Heya! Welcome to Lifemerized! Honestly I have been wanting to have my blog for so long but you know how it is, you're always worried if you can do things well enough to get it to the audience. But here I am, writing on Lifemerized afterall! I ain't a professional writer or a fancy story…

The Journey Begins

Thanks for joining me! Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton